The Holiday Season is a time of joy and merriment. Most of us look forward to these special days of the year. Itâs the end of the year, and we ought to celebrate the fruits of our labor and share it with ones we hold dear. These blues can be especially overwhelming during a time of change. Christmas and New Yearâs Eve often present challenging demands.

But why is it that during the holiday season, some people develop anxiety and sadness? Why is it that a joyous occasion such as Christmas and New Year bring about sadness and a sense of uneasiness? Several reasons could be thought of. This may be brought about by the anticipation of this once-a-year much-awaited season, long preparations for the festivities, choosing special gifts for loved ones, attending numerous parties right and left, and planning how to celebrate this.
On the other hand, the merrymaking may remind us of the loss of a loved one, especially when this happened during this season. The season may also remind us of bad memories of the season, hence it becomes a reason to feel depressed or anxious. Not being able to go home to your loved ones can trigger holiday blues. Going through personal circumstances like financial constraints is another one. When someone is going through rough times, it is difficult to see others celebrate.
All these may cause pressure. Though we may not consider it stressful, in truth, it is.
How does holiday blues present?
The most common symptom of the holiday blues is amplified depression. This is true of people who may or may not be dealing with depression already.
People with holiday blues may experience tiredness more than usual. They may feel tense and have difficulty relaxing. With all the hustle and bustle, they easily feel frustrated. They become more irritable than before. Their patience runs short. Instead of excitement, they feel sad and lonely.

What to do to manage holiday blues?
The following are practical tips on how to address holiday blues:
1. Take time off.
Make sure you are okay. Make time for yourself. âMe-timeâ is important. Engage in self-care activities. A simple massage or going to the spa can make a difference.
2. But donât isolate yourself.
Taking time off does not mean you distance yourself from others. These two things are different. You can also verbalize what you are feeling with someone you trust.
3. Get plenty of sleep.
Sleeping regenerates the mind and the body, so you should not deprive yourself of it.
4. Avoid alcohol.
Though alcohol may soothe you temporarily, it does not benefit you in the long run, especially if you are under stress. Besides, when did alcohol ever provide any real good for the body?
5. Learn to say no.
Attending all the revelries may not be a good idea. Overscheduling will surely lead to a stressful situation. You can only do so much.
6. Double-check your holiday expectations.
Be realistic with your expectations. Not everything you see on social media is the real oneâit could be a staged photo op. You donât need to live up to any expectation for the holidays! Get real.
7. Pray.
Communing with a Higher Being does wonders. Never underestimate the power of prayer.
Remember that the holiday blues are short-term, and if you feel like itâs something youâre going through, thatâs okay! Find the support you need and take things one at a time.
Now, if youâre still feeling extremely sad after the holidays are over, you may be dealing with more than just a case of the holiday blues. You should seek help from your doctor. They can help you determine the cause and address the symptoms.
REFERENCES:
1. Foundry. (2023, November 29). What Are The Holiday Blues? – Foundry.Â
https://foundrybc.ca/stories/what-are-the-holiday-blues/
2. Purdie, J. (2019, December 13). How To Deal With Stress and Depression During the Holidays. Healthline.
https://www.healthline.com/health/
